I used to study in an arabic-medium school and had learned that when you wear tudung, you're not supposed to show any indication that your hair is long by tying your hair really high/do a bun until men can notice the presence of your long hair eventhough you wear your cover/hijab. That defeats the purpose of wearing a hijab.However, I can't remember the hukum whether it's haram or harus or makruh.
Being curious, I googled about this sanggul arab issue and found the hadith related:
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“ akan muncul dalam kalangan umatku di akhir zaman, kaum lelaki yang menunggang sambil duduk di atas pelana, lalu mereka turun di depan pintu-pintu masjid. Wanita-wanita mereka( isteri mereka atau anak perempuan), berpakaian tetapi seperti bertelanjang ( nipis&ketat). Di atas kepala mereka pula(wanita) terdapat bonggolan (sanggul atau tocang) seperti bonggol unta yang lemah gemalai. Oleh itu laknatlah mereka semua. Sesungguhnya mereka adalah wanita-wanita yang terlaknat”
- hadith riwayat Ahmad, jil.2, ms. 223.
Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda:
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“dua golongan penghuni neraka yang mana aku sendiri belum pernah melihat keadaan mereka didunia: golongan yang membawa cemeti seperti seekor lembu lalu menggunakannya untuk memukul manusia dan juga kaum wanita yang berpakaian seperti bertelanjang, menggoyangkan badan dan berlenggang-lenggok, kepala mereka ada suatu seperti bonggol di kepala unta yang bergoyang-goyang. Mereka tentu tidak akan memasuki syurga atau mencium baunya sedangkan bau syurga itu dapat dihidu dari jarak perjalanan begitu dan begini”
–hadith riwayat Muslim. Hadith no 212-
I would say that I was tempted at first as I saw some women/celebraties/tv presenters looked really pretty wearing the syrian style hijab with high sanggul/bun. Sometimes, bila nak cantik, manusia selalu lupa pada hukum walaupon dah belajar.I am one of them. Bila nak buat benda jahat, laju je.
Anyway, in wearing hijab,niat perlukah menghalalkan cara? I dare not jatuhkan hukum or say that it is haram wearing the fake sanggul arab.However,at the moment, I'll just forget about buying the sanggul arab thing...
p/s : taken fr fren's fb who also get this fr her mail box......
just sharing.....
2 comments:
I say, there is no such thing as haram when buat sanggul or even use fake sanggul whatever, as long as you tutup aurat, tak perpakaian ketat etc etc. It depend on your intention. Do you want to look pretty so you can feel confident when you walk/go out. Who here go out with ridiculously ugly clothes, tudung, etc etc. Its not like you going out like that to show off, searching for guys to do bad stuffs(maksiat). If anyone want to say bad stuff, saying you a slut or whatever, why you even care, dosa is not your to get but theirs. More so when they spouting nonsense (fitnah).
If you think about it, blogspot, facebook where you putting all your picture. Is it haram to show your pictures, posture, face, etc etc to other people as you luring bad people to do sin (pervert, rapist, peeping tom) among your friend, neighbour, or even in your family. Just saying. Even though, the thought cross the mind, people with low resistance (iman tak kuat), who knows what will happen. Anyway, pray and ask for forgiveness each time (every prayer), ask for pedoman (i'm not sure what in malay word for asking to show the way).
I'm hoping people seeking advice, research, learn, don't afraid to ask for direction but the best way, learn arabic, learn the meaning, know the meaning, Al-Quran, Hadith, rather than depending on other people that you don't even know if they really know what are they talking about. Once you took a wrong turn, are you lucky enough to do the U-turn before its too late. Doubt is good, don't just blindly believe in everything, when in doubt be quiet <--- take this literally (some people just can't hold their tongue).
anonymous : i appreciate ur view...it is all acceptable...dont worry...this depends on the beholder themselves...i was just sharing...this is 1 of my view abt the sanggul thing...at least, we spread the da'wah right... :) btw, thanx for sharing ur view...
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