Perhaps real meant of friend?

I went out with my friends, one of them is telling more to mengadu about her love story. Her story is indeed long and like never lasting, but I keep on listening until the very end, and I replied with just some quote,

Me : Adda, aku just nak bgtau ni jer, we are looking for man not to be our husband, but to be the father our kids, any man can be our husband, but not any man can be the father of our kids...
A : Ermmmmm....

And she end up posting my quote up her wall, bet this quote really give her a deep thinking perhaps...